Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Is spanking detrimental to children?

I really enjoyed these articles of contrasting opinions and although my opinion on the subject didn't change, I now look at the debate in a sort of different light. First, It's hard to get empirical evidence on this matter because (1) there are so many other variables to consider as to why kids who were spanked had higher levels of aggression in adolescence and (2) if a researcher was observing parents who spank their kids to collect evidence, at what point is too much and ethical lines are crossed. The interesting thing about the two, however, is that arguement stating spanking was "not" detrimetnal to healthy development seemed to include more facts and statistics than the argument claiming spanking "is" detrimental. The latter argument really didn't place much emphasis on socio-economic status and the violent nature of the parents, if any. The conclusion I came to is that there is no evidence suggesting that not spanking your child will lead to aggressive behaviors, however there really isn't a lot of hard evidence suggesting that spanking your child will lead to aggressive behaviors either. Having said that, I was not spanked as a child (or the recipient of any type of corporal punnishment for that matter) and I still contend I will not spank my children either, for the simple reasoning that I do not believe in inflicting any type of pain to "teach someone a lesson" or "prove who the boss is".

2 comments:

  1. After reading this article myself, I found that it was not conclusive in any way! I myself was spanked as a child. I can count on one hand the number of spankings that I got as a kid. So, you can see that it was not many. The only thing that it taught me was, that I should not get caught again! My point is this, I have always believed that spanking is o.k. . I got them when I was a kid, so why can't my kids get them. Now that I am a parent I think that what I want to accomplish with getting my childs attention about doing something wrong will not be gained with a spanking. Right now my daughter is only two years old and when she does something wrong I will swat her on the diaper. This gets her attention so she knows that I am telling her no! However, I don't see this to be the answer to her behavior. So, I guess that I am saying that I have changed my oppion on spanking my child. I think that as she gets older and is better able to understand me, I will be able to talk to her and explain that what she is doing is wrong. I am all for better communication with my children.

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  2. It's true that there isn't much evidence to support either side. The aggressive behavior might have come from the kids they hang out with at school, or the neighborhood they grew up in.

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