My friend just called and said when we go out tonight "Is it okay if we meet up with some boys tonight? I have a guy I want you to meet." I told her as long as he is cute. Why is that the first thing I thing about is physical attraction? My step Dad says you should get to know them before you make a decision on if you are going to like them or not. The boy could be very smart, tell good stories or make you feel good about yourself. I have never gotten that far before so why is that?
Is it personality influencing how we accept or value the way people look. What one person thinks is good looking the other person may feel totally different about. Some girls like pretty boys that have feminine features, while others like ruff musclure guys. The traits that influence what one feels is attractive might be genetic or influenced by our friends and families. When filling out the surveys it makes one wonder what the research is about. Could it be something like what is it that makes up our physical attraction?
It gets us to thinking just like the survey or class discoussions we had about physical attraction. Some just based it differently like when Dr. Risser showed us different figured picutures of women and how all men picked the number seven as the most physical attracted. Why is that we make the waist to hip ratio as we learned in class. Physical attraction is what more then half of us based people on, whether we see it or not.
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I think its normal for a person to want a man/woman to be physically attractive to them. I know for the longest time I wanted my man to be drop dead sexy lol! But now I know that beauty is skin deep and we shouldn't be so quick to judge. I possibly passed up a good man in my lifetime due to him not being handsome enough for me at the time. This is a very good blog BRE!
ReplyDeleteYes Jen I agree it pretty sad if you actually think of it that more than half of us to base people on there looks and not there inner beauty. It makes all a little superficial then others. I think it is a normal thing as well :) It is just kind of hurtful to though because we should see pass just the looks.
ReplyDeleteI believe that a lot of people first judge a person on their looks, I know I used too. I try not to do that anymore, but go on who the person is on the inside and what kind of person that they are.
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